There are many varying definitions of virginity. And yet one can be a virgin who has had considerably more sexual activity than their contemporaries. One can thus be a virgin and yet give the most amazing head a person could ever receive. What hope is there for them? This is one of the aspects that trips up many virgins.

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He was on the bigger side, so he just kind of went at full force and I bled like a fucking waterfall. I felt bad about his sheets and carpets after. The end. I was 13 and my fiancee boyfriend at the time and I walked about 4 miles in the middle of the summer to buy condoms from the gas station. Then we snuck off to the woods behind his house to have sex. For some reason, three or four neighborhood dogs decided to steal my panties from under my back then return them to his front porch three weeks later with a giant hole in the ass. Oh, also since it was summer at dusk and my fiancee is a profuse sweater, for a little while there, he was on top of me dripping sweat so bad that I thought it was raining.
Photo by Victor Torres via Stocksy. I knew a guy in high school who scratched actual tally marks into his bedpost. Not just for the number of girls he had slept with, but for the number of virginities taken.